Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;
you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like
you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers &
sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her
home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even
your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1,
while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances,
environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the
morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply
Because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this……
Please appreciate “HER”
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply
Because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this……
Please appreciate “HER”
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Sir,
ReplyDeleteYour blog is reali nice and the beginning of this article really captivated me. But , forgive me but i was disappointed by the end.
Don’t you think the Indian male should go much beyond just “understanding” and “appreciating” ? It’s a pity that we are trained that way and even women seem to accept that eventually it is their DUTY and the maximum they can get from their partners/husbands is care and understanding for all the effort which is involved which is kind of also depicted by the comment of the lady above.It’s high time that guys start working in the kitchens as much as their partners.And women start asserting their rights.What is the use of all our education if we don’t understand such a basic notion like equality?
Sir the comment is by no means directed at you personally or anything. I don't even know your views on such issues but I am just trying to raise a larger moral question to the average Indian “hypocritical” male(which includes me too):-P